The Wait

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Marriage is one the biggest decisions you will make in your life. Trust God as He writes your love story because He is the best author.

Be Blessed!

Love TeamHolmes

Single Mom Superheros



We just wanted to take the time to shout out all of you single mothers. You think nobody sees you and that you are all alone, but you’re not! Someone is always watching you. We are watching you and we look up to you. You have the longest resume we have ever seen. You’re not only a doctor, nurse, teacher, maid, cook, provider, protector, and heroine.  You’re also the domestic engineer, the general executive, the private investigator, the project foreman, the household representative, the chief financial officer, and the maintenance manager! If we may put it simple, You’re just a Superhero in disguise!

Superheros have such special powers and you even get tired sometimes but Hebrews 4:16 says, Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in the time of need. KJV

All of you beautiful single mothers wear your capes proudly as we salute you as our superheros! Be blessed all day!

Love Always,

Team Holmes


Don’t Let Go of Your Faith


Continue to wait on the Lord. Don’t give up on Him and don’t lose faith in Him because you have yet to see the manifestation of your heart’s desires. He loves you and wants the very best for your life. Be encouraged sisters.

Love you like crazy,


10 Things TO Remind Yourself As a Single Christian Woman


As a single Christian Woman, here are 10 things to remind yourself EVERY SINGLE DAY!

You are NOT the only one.

God DOES know your future.

And He knows the desires of your heart.

Not EVERY good, Christian guy is taken.

Yes, you are beautiful.

NO, It’s NOT too late.

Waiting is worth it.

Keep being friendly, happy and never bitter.

Being single is NOT a disease.


Let God Write Your Love Story


Our God is so good! Let him write your love story for you. Wait on him and trust in him. My prayer for you is that you wait on God’s best for your life. Seek Him concerning all things and He will answer!

Love you Guys! I’m always praying for you!

Sharmaine Holmes

Don’t Worry If You’re Single!




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Don’t worry about being single. Don’t let people pressure you about some biological clock that’s ticking either. Honey, let me tell you!!! At one point in my single life I worried myself to the point of no return about getting married. I almost married the WRONG person because of it too. I had to get my life and take several seats! But I thank God everyday because I was constantly praying about this situation and I had no peace. I done went and made plans, got a venue, spent money and a lot of it on something that never happened. I had no peace about the situation and even though I spent money and time, I ended it all! And as God nursed me back to health, restored my finances, healed my heart, and help me get my life, I enjoyed single life. So don’t make my mistake; wait on God! When you’re single; you’re a whole person, not half a person just because you aren’t married. A whole person who answers to GOD alone, not some boo thang. You can travel as you please, eat cereal, tuna, and grilled cheese for breakfast, lunch and dinner (like I did lol), and do what you want whenever you want! I got to go hang out with my Aunty and Cousin in Las Vegas for a whole month, I worked full time as a Correction’s Officer and went to school at Montclair State University full time. I went on vacation twice a year with my family, went on retreats, conferences, and hung out with my girlfriends! Single life is priceless and you don’t want to waste it by wishing you were married. I did lots of things before I got married and you should too because you owe it to yourself to find out who YOU are!

It’s so important to enjoy the season that you’re in and be thankful for your portion. I just got married! It’s only been 7 months but what question do you think I hear every other day? When are you having babies? What are you waiting for, don’t you know you’re getting old lol? If you don’t handle the pressure correctly, it will make you crazy. When my husband and I see little babies, we just melt, but we need to enjoy this season we are in as being married. So far I have been enjoying sleeping in a little on Saturdays. My friends and family always tell me that the first thing you lose when you have little people is SLEEP! I really enjoy sleeping lol and even though we want to have children, we do want to cherish this baby-free season of our lives, because once they come, they are here to stay lol. When we are single, we are pressured to be married then when we are married, we are pressured to have kids. If you stay in an apartment too long, you’re pressured into getting your first home. If you just get your degree, you’re pressured to find the perfect career.  My prayer is that you let God lead you and be happy where you are while you strive to get where you are going!

I’ll share some of my single life photos with you guys since you insist on not believing me lol!



Me and Kenti (Quaker Steak)


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Graduation (Essex County College)
At my girlfriend’s Bday Party
Me and the girls on Carnival Cruise
Montclair state University Graduation
Officer of the LAW


Me and my best friend WAAAY back before we got married!
Shopping with Chivon
Hanging with Mi Familia


I used to live in the gym
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Great times with Cass
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My cutting up days in Vegas!

This was a note to all of you wonderful single people who are being saved for a special someone.

Keep living and doing you as a happy, whole, single person!

Be blessed all day every day!

Love you always,

Mrs. Sharmaine Holmes